
Something struck me recently as I was flipping through a newspaper (honestly, it was
USA Today, so it barely counts as a newspaper). But the second or third section of the paper was called the "Life" or "Lifestyle" section - I don't remember which. I never gave this much thought before, but the section had quite a bit of celebrity news - celebrity gossip, lifestyles of the rich and famous, etc. (By the way, from now on I am getting all my news from
The Onion and
The Daily Show.)
What does that have to do with "life"? The most likely answer to that question - the one that crept into my head - was disturbing. It is possible that we, collectively, have mistaken celebrity gossip with real living. Have our lives moved away from reality and into a dream state where we actually care what is going on with Brittany Spears or Paris Hilton or Michael Vick? It is truly disturbing to think we turn to this section of the newspaper to find information about life.
I have noticed a corollary trend. About a year ago, I canceled cable television and stopped watching the grotesque amount of TV I was used to. Instead, I turned to my family and to books to entertain myself. When I share this with people, especially young people, I often get the response, "That must really suck, Mr. Huffman!" or the even more telling statement, "You must not have a life."

Why would it be presumed that I was bored by the choices I made? I guess I can see why people who never read would find reading boring. But that I choose to spend time with my family, why would anyone assume that was boring? It has been my experience that people's level of boredom is inversely related to the quality of their imagination. Or, as my brother puts it, "Only the boring are bored."
We need to
turn off our televisions, take the ear buds out of our ears and walk away from the internet. And then we must begin to reconnect with people in our lives. Starting with ourselves. I think we should all spend at least a little time alone with our thoughts everyday, meditating on what "life" really is. Then, as we discover it, we should share it with the people around us. From what I can tell, too many people (advertisers, TV network executives, USA Today "Life" section editors) are living our lives for us via the different forms of media.

Do we even know what we want, what makes us happy, how to feel without being told by the blinking box?